Wednesday, February 21, 2018

Birthday cruise

After everything that went down with work last month, Jason and I decided to get out of town. 

It was my birthday last weekend, and we booked a last minute unsold cruise cabin. We did a quick little cruise from Port Canaveral to Nassau.  We left on Thursday afternoon, doesn't Friday in The Bahamas, then Saturday was a day at sea.

The weather was beautiful, the waves smooth, and overall, it was a relaxing time.

In Nassau, we took a ferry to a private island, where we did a stingray meet and greet, then went out on sea kayaks, and just chilled on a private beach. The water was freezing but a beautiful turquoise.  As is the case with every place I visit for vacation, I now want to live there! Haha!



























Tuesday, January 30, 2018

Doggo dentist

Dobbs got his teeth cleaned yesterday. He was sooooooo stoned when I went to pick him up. Total 500 yard stare.

They had to pull his lower lateral incisors due to advanced gum disease, but his canines are still there, as derpy as ever!!



Monday, January 29, 2018

Dracarys v. 2.0

Woke up.
Fucked.
Ready to set the world on fire.

Keep it fast and loose.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P8sq6wWH-mc&sns=em

Saturday, January 27, 2018

Dracarys

Well, I was fired from my job on Thursday.  I had no idea it was coming, but as soon as they closed the door, I knew what was happening. Fuck.

The situation is that the doctor I was working for passed away last March after a short illness. The practice was purchased by another doctor, and we were invited to come to work at his location as the patients transitioned there, too.

I was thankful for the opportunity to continue treating our patients and that I had fallen into a full time position with a great office.

On Thursday, after approximately ten months at the new location, I was fired because they told me I wasn't happy there.

This is bullshit. No one ever asked me how I felt. I never had any reviews or meetings with boss, or feedback sessions. Also never received an operations manual.

They told me how I felt without ever asking me. And they were wrong.

I was happy there. Sure, it was a drive (30 miles, 45-60 minutes each way) but I will gladly drive for a job I enjoy for a great team.  I came in on time or early everyday. Helped out when I had time, joked around with the other women there.

The rejection still stings my ego.

But I am going to be fine. I am a fucking warrior. I do not give up when faced with a setback or challenge.

I am a two time national swimming champ.
I am a survivor of sexual assault.
I have overcome mental illness to get to where I am today.
I climbed to the top of the world in Nepal.
I know who I am.
I am true to myself every day despite a shit world that tries to tear me down.


I contacted the office manager from a previous office, who I am still close with. It is a specialist office. She blasted my resume to 100+ of their referring offices. I had two offers within an hour.

I reached out to several people online and applied to other jobs posted online.

Then I went to the gym and deadlifted 260 lbs. A personal record.

I am a warrior.
I am happy.
And now I'm pissed.

Dracarys 🔥




Tuesday, January 2, 2018

At least it's not heroin

Scott has been struggling.  I found a syringe and packets in his room.  Jason wanted to kick him out of the house, but I said we should confront him and decide based on his response.

Scott was very forthcoming.  Admitted to the relapse, almost started crying over it.  He says he is just bored and likes to shoot cocaine and get fired up, drive around, go shopping. He loves the mania. I can't blame him.

After discussing, we decided Scott could stay. We decided to go in together on an Xbox. So now we are all getting addicted to video games. But at least it's not heroin.




Dobbs like to curl up with us when we play








I love when his little paws are crossed. Precious!


Saturday, July 1, 2017

Black River float trip

After talking about taking a float trip for the past 13 summers, we finally made plans and went on one!

Mom, dad, Scott, Jason, and I drove down to Annapolis to Jeff's Canoe's to float the Black River.

We did a cool 6 miles.  It was exhilarating, and beautiful, and just as I remembered.

We brought doggo along, too.  He's part of the pack, so we didn't even consider leaving him at home.

It's just like Scott said, "Hiking is more fun with the dog, so floating should be, too."  We went to the pet store on Thursday night and bought a life jacket for him.





















The drive down to Annapolis is pretty, but its a long way.  Took us like 2 1/2 hours.

This is us before loading onto the buses at Jeff's:
















Scott was the odd man out, so we got a tube for him and towed him behind the canoe.  He has a sprained wrist anyway, so he couldn't really paddle.










































My sister said it best when she saw these pics later that night, "Skipping rocks is my favorite family activity on float trips!"  We have laughed so hard at my brother's technique.   Scott and dad tried to skip the rocks all the way across the river to the other bank.  They succeeded many times.  I've always sucked at skipping rocks, but Scott gave me some pointers, and I actually skipped a rock successfully this time!






























We forgot to bring dog food for puppy wuppy, so he had a few bites of sandwich.  He's just so cute!




















This is my favorite pic from the trip.  My sister didn't believe it when she saw the photos later, but doggo just followed me into the water without hesitation, and when it got too deep for him, he started swimming!  It was so awesome, and I was so happy!  We all were!

He was so sweet, and just chilled in the canoe.  At one point, Jason made a tent out of a towel and the cooler, so dog could have some shade.  I'm so glad the dog came to live with us, and I'm so happy we are giving him a good life.























We were on the river for about five hours.  We stopped a lot of swim, eat, skip rocks. There were several rope swings and tire swings, but we didn't do that.  The river was pretty low and we dragged a few times, but then there are very deep parts along the bluff.  The water is a beautiful turquoise.  Ah, I've missed it so much!


Jason is VERY sunburned.  Scott is a little pink, and I just have a little area on my back that got sunburned.  We actually stopped at WalMart in Farmington on the way home for Aloe Vera.  If Jason could've bought a 50-gallon drum and bathed in it he would have!


We are already excited to go back again, probably in August.


Saturday, June 24, 2017

Weekend to Chicago

Went up to Chicago with Jason and David to see The Copyrights.  We left STL about 7:30 on Thursday and drove up to Dwight.

We got a room at a hotel, and it was really stuffy, so we cranked to AC and passed out.  I woke up a few hours later, absolutely freezing! I was also completely stuck to Jason for warmth. I remember saying, "Jason, I'm cold!". It's humorous that I was clinging to Jason because usually we do not touch when we sleep.

The next morning, all of us commented on how cold we all were, yet no one got up to turn it off.  I didn't want to get out from under the covers, and David thought that maybe we liked it that cold!

We got breakfast and headed to Chicago. We drove straight to Logan Square to do some shopping. My, how the neighborhood has changed, and not necessarily for the better. When I lived there, most of the advertisements were in Spanish, and there were definitely not mom's in yoga pants pushing strollers down the street.

The book store we were wanting to checkout had moved, so we walked 1.5 miles north to the new location, then we walked another mile to a record store. It was hot as balls out, and I was wearing pants.

We were going to stay at Ben's house, but he had already left for work and we didn't have a key, so we just chilled on the porch.  Luckily, Vic came home early and let us in. We chilled at the house for a bit, then took an Uber to Boiler Room for pizza and beers before the show. I had one slice of cheese and two margarita, and two PBRs.  Jason and David each had two slices and two beers. Our bill was $71. But it was good and a special occasion out of town doing something new.

After pizza, we walked to Logan hardware to play some arcade games. Jason and I of course, played Jurassic Park. Only spent $5, but didn't beat the level. It is still one of my favorites.

David played this Japanese game where you beat your hands on a table and then flip it over.  We didn't know how to play it, because the whole thing was in Japanese. It was by far the most popular game in there, so we watched some other people play it to try to figure it out.

After arcade, we went to Quenchers for the show. It was packed. All four bands were solid, but I was mainly there for brokedowns and copyrights.

Carl and Lee were there with other friends, and I saw a lot of people I knew.  We stood near the back and had plenty of room to sing and dance.

Allegedly, this was the first time the copyrights had played together since like February. I was aware of a few mess ups, but nothing major. And it was still a fun time.

I might have seen Guiseppe, I'm not sure.  The person I saw that might have been him had shoulder length hair now, and a black tattoo on his right arm. Way different than when I knew him right years ago. I can't believe it's been that long ago already. I'm definitely in a great place now, and I wasn't phased by seeing this person at all. :)

After the show, Jason and I went to the mutiny with Carl and Lee for a beer and to let Jason see the huge urinal.






















Ben drove us home. We ordered pizza and passed out.

Got sultan's on the way out of town. It was still pretty good, as I remember.

I was smiling in the car the whole way back. It was a fun, quick get away. Jason had a great time, too.  This was hist first time up there for a show and to see the neighborhood stuff and not just downtown.  We will definitely go back! :)